[His composed exterior cracks a little and he gives you what looks almost like a teary smile.] I really appreciate that. Really.

Just, let me know what's up. In general, at least. I don't want to, you know, go and...put my foot in it.

No Karrie, I mean--well okay yes, that--but I was also going to ask permission. And. I haven't, yet. I... I've barely spoken with him...

[He frowns and shakes his head, clearly discontent.]

I know. All about that. I take it personally all the time. It's made me say and do some some...wow, really dumb things. But I understand. I don't know what's worse. Being told you're unwanted, or being told you're wanted but unacceptable.

[He holds his hands out, helpless.]

Just don't push so hard he concedes for the sheer sake of it. I--I fear that...constantly.